Let’s talk about Teen Dating Violence…

Teen dating violence refers to a pattern of abusive behaviors used by one partner to gain power and control over another in a dating relationship. This type of violence can take various forms, including physical, emotional, verbal, sexual, and digital abuse. It's crucial to approach this topic with sensitivity and awareness of the traumatic impact it can have on young individuals.

Understanding Teen Dating Violence:

Teen dating violence can occur in any relationship, regardless of gender, sexual orientation, race, or socioeconomic status. It often begins subtly and may escalate over time if not addressed. Some common signs of teen dating violence include:

  1. Physical Abuse: This can include hitting, slapping, pushing, or any form of physical harm inflicted upon a partner.

  2. Emotional Abuse: This involves behaviors aimed at undermining a partner's self-worth and confidence, such as constant criticism, manipulation, or threats.

  3. Verbal Abuse: This includes yelling, name-calling, or using derogatory language to demean a partner.

  4. Sexual Abuse: This encompasses any non-consensual sexual activity or coercion within the relationship.

  5. Digital Abuse: With the prevalence of technology, this form of abuse involves controlling or harassing a partner

    through social media, texting, or other online platforms.

How to approach that conversation

It's crucial to address teen dating violence from a sensitive perspective, recognizing that individuals who experience such violence may have enduring emotional and psychological effects. A trauma-informed approach involves understanding the impact of trauma on individuals and prioritizing safety, empowerment, and healing. ConsideriKey principles of a trauma-informed response include:

  1. Safety: Ensuring the safety of the individual experiencing violence is paramount. This may involve creating a safety plan, accessing support services, or seeking assistance from trusted adults or authorities.

  2. Trustworthiness: Building trust with the survivor is essential. It's vital to provide reliable information, maintain confidentiality, and demonstrate empathy and non-judgmental support.

  3. Empowerment: Empowering survivors to make their own choices and regain a sense of control is critical. This may involve offering options for support, validating their experiences, and respecting their autonomy.

  4. Collaboration: Working collaboratively with survivors, as well as with other professionals and support services, can enhance the effectiveness of interventions and ensure comprehensive care.

  5. Cultural Sensitivity: Recognizing and respecting cultural differences and individual preferences is essential in providing inclusive and effective support to survivors from diverse backgrounds.

For more information, take a look at the following resources:

  1. Love is Respect:

    • Phone: 1-866-331-9474

    • Text ‘loveis’ to 22522

    • Website: https://www.loveisrespect.org/

    • Offers support, information and resources for young people experiencing dating violence.

  2. National Domestic Violence Hotline:

    • Website: thehotline.org

    • 24/7 Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)

    • Text Line: Text “Start” to 88788

    • The National Domestic Violence Hotline provides information and resources on domestic abuse, including warning signs, safety planning, and how to get help.

  3. CDC- Teen Dating Violence:

  4. RAINN-Teen Dating Violence: